loss of my old self, gaining new self
loss of free time, gaining appreciation for it
loss of boss, gaining his last-day perspective
loss of family members (in a dream), gaining responsibility for your life
loss of attachment and of “mine”, gaining independence
loss of mind clutter, gaining clear mind and finding my self
loss of former girlfriend, gaining new relationship
lost connection with Catholicism, gaining a more universal yet personal way of life
loss of weight